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不是要撑起一个暑假,而是究竟凭什么可以让孩子撑得起他的人生

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Recently, People's Daily Weibo published a comment《人民日报评家长收入撑不起一个暑假》.

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Outline its main points:

1. The children in the summer vacation are busier than usual.

2. The huge expenses of the summer class made parents feel a lot of emotions.

3. Fight for the "starting line" for children, reflecting the anxiety of adults.

4. We should respect the law of the child's growth, release the personality and nature, and lay a solid foundation for the child's future.

In this regard, the comments of netizens are warm:

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I can feel the anxiety, anxiety and anxiety of many parents across the screen.

"Don't let the child lose at the starting line, is it the biggest lie?"

A great answer is:

"This sentence is not a lie, just use the wrong object, let the child not lose at the starting line, not toss the child to death, but toss yourself. Because you are the starting line of the child."

As parents, there are about two types: hard work and no effort. Effortless parents never stop learning, children usually look in their eyes, naturally, he will also regard learning as a very natural thing in life, as usual in eating and sleeping games, habitually as serious as parents Learn.

The famous German philosopher IELTS Bells said:

The essence of education is that one cloud pushes another cloud, one soul summons another soul.

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xxA while ago, the 49-year-old Shanghai Jiaotong University’s Ayiyuan Dream Garden, which was screened with the college entrance examination champion, and his son’s postgraduate study, the mother and son “one battle” was successful. She was admitted to Fudan University's undergraduate degree in Chinese language and literature in the past few years. She was admitted to the graduate school of Guangxi University this year. Her continuous example has deeply inspired her son, and her son was admitted to Fudan University.

Continuous learning, this is the normal state of the original dream garden life, she will learn and learn knowledge as the footprint of life, into the life of their own little.

The best education for a child is to grow up with the child, rather than rushing to toss the child behind, it is better to lead him in front.

As the original dream garden said:

"Go your own way, let the children chase after you, one day, he will surpass you and lead."

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Some people think that today's education is to fight for parents, so the competition should be the pattern of parents, thinking, and effort, rather than spending more money on interest classes and tutoring classes.

"National talented woman" Wu Yizhen's mother said:

"Real education has never been a stone, a skill to become a Buddha, but a process of spring and rain, a natural inaction."

"Inaction" comes from Laozi《道德经》. The so-called "inaction" does not mean doing nothing, but means not doing it. People must conform to the laws of nature and accomplish all things. Do not impose their will on other people or things. This is the true meaning of "inaction."

"Inaction" is used for education, which is to adapt to the child's nature.

Every child is unique. Parents should observe and understand the nature of their children calmly and blindly follow the wind.

One parent sighed like this: It is not the summer vacation of the child that can't afford it. It is unavoidable for parents to take it for granted.

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xxThis year's Zhejiang Province champion Xu Jialu won the first prize with a comprehensive score of 720 points.

Circle of friends:

"Jiayu, the champion is affirmation of your efforts in the past 12 years, but the champion is just a false name. I hope that you will not be tired of being frustrated in the future, down-to-earth and let it go. Today, Dad still sent you a sentence before the college entrance examination. Heaven and earth have great beauty, beauty is nature; water is not the first thing, and the competition is endless!"

We saw Xu’s vision and pattern. He taught his son to be modest and docile, to adapt to nature, to fight for the first time, and to be proactive!

In contrast, some parents who are anxious and anxious:

"But the reality is not allowed, the competition is fierce. Parents are afraid that children will have a slower summer than others."

There are also more sensible parents:

"It's not just the question of money. Many people are guided by the anxiety and the unstable heart. The East is a hammer."

"The term "a skill" is quite contradictory in the current environment. Most parents are when they are in elementary school, they report a bunch of interest classes, learn musical instruments, learn to draw, learn language. and then go to the middle and high schools to say these things. The heart is not allowed to learn, and the result is mostly bamboo baskets. Which of these skills can be acquired in a short period of three or four years? ()

"This is not the "I will become you when I grow up." How many people who have been supplemented with troubles when they are younger, have become the "oppressors" in the eyes of their children when they become parents?"

There are also students’ voices:

"Most parents still take the results as everything. I feel that I have to go through a process to make up the class. Unless the child is first, the parents will always make you more powerful. For example, I am already in the science key class. The position is good, but I still have to go to class during the summer vacation."

Sabinin said in《开讲啦》:

xx不要相信如果你不在起跑线上失去生命,你只需要冲刺100米。

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生命是一场马拉松比赛,无论谁坚持到最后都是至关重要的。

从高层建筑的高度来看,地板的高度取决于基础的坚固程度,而不是运输的砖块数量。基础不稳定,移动更多砖块是没用的。

什么能给我们一个坚实的整个生命框架是良好的品质和习惯,各种知识技能相当于“砖头”。

基础和框架已经建立。在这个前提下,给予孩子正确的兴趣和训练,坚持不懈,这是锦上添花,促进儿童身心健康,提高自信心和未来工作的健康发展。添加乐趣一切都很好。

如果我看一下我报道的课程,我也会报告。无论孩子是否喜欢它,并以“对你有益”为理由强加它,效果可想而知,有些孩子甚至可能导致“恶心”。学习“情绪”。仔细想想。

当你争辩说“不要在起跑线上输球”时,这个世界起跑线上的某个人竟然不知所措!

然而,谁能想到它,人们奇迹般地将你的上限变成了她的下限,它远远超出了你。

根据真实事件,生活在毒品,艾滋病和饥饿贫民窟的女演员丽丝长大了。

她在8岁开始乞讨。她的父母是瘾君子,母亲的眼睛是瞎子,她也患有精神分裂症。后来,当父亲醉酒进入避难所并且母亲去世时,她无处可依赖,在街上睡觉,捡起别人丢弃的食物残渣。她的上学只能是间歇性的。

丽丝跌入了她生命的最底层。

然而,她认为,如果她想改变自己的命运,她只需要学习。她开始了兼职工作。

她花了很多时间在她不眠之夜,甚至把知识放在靠近泳池的纸上,那里的盘子被刷了。她争先恐后地阅读这本书,两年内完成了为期四年的课程,并获得纽约时报奖进入哈佛大学。反击生活。

丽丝说:“我与其他人不同。我没有退路。我必须更加努力,更加努力地将自己推向另一个世界。”

我们已经看到,让利兹终于改变生活的原因是她的顽强意志和出色的自律。

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也许,你会说这是一个很遥远的特例。那么,让我们来看一个离你更近的例子:

我记得“极限挑战”成员曾与高中生一起玩游戏,所以所有学生都是从同一起跑线开始的。

“极限挑战”成员提出了六个问题。如果您的情况一致,请继续执行六个步骤。如果您不同意,请留在原地。

这六个问题是:

1.您的父母是否接受过大学或更高学历?

你的父母是否要求为你进行一对一的教育?

3.你的父母是否让你继续学习除了家庭作业以外的特殊技能,你仍然保持一定的水平?

4.您是否经历过从小到大的旅行体验的海外旅行?

你父母答应送你去国外学习吗?

6.父母是否一直认为你是骄傲,并在朋友和亲戚面前炫耀?

在提出六个问题之后,我发现最初在同一起跑线上的学生已经打开了这个空白。

焦点在后面:

Extreme Challenge的成员和Extreme Think Tank的几名成员也做了同样的事情。

在六个问题结束后,出乎意料的是,在娱乐行业中为自己命名的六个“极端挑战”成员并不是起跑线上的领导者。

可以看出,低起点不会影响它们变得更好和更成功。

事实上,在人生的道路上,我仍然依靠自己,用自己的努力和坚持不懈地运行整个过程。父母必须在父母一开始就有意识地培养这些能力。

身心健康,良好的品质和习惯,以及努力工作总是比“阅读”更重要。

正如“人民日报”评论中所述,这种“成年人才”与“儿童未来的坚实基础”相同。有了这样的基础,孩子们就能够经受住他未来的生活。

最后,我想说,

事实上,比赛也是一项技能,而且这项技能可以最好地刺激其他技能。父母不应该忽视孩子的这个技能点。

根据孩子的天性,让孩子们学习,玩耍和结合,享受他们真正喜欢的暑假。

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她是一个文盲的农民妇女,但却有光绪皇帝的义,“教导众神的义”。八个孩子并不富裕和昂贵。

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